Valentines Day Gift: January 2010

The History of Valentine's Day

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Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Saint Valentine as a priest at the temple during the reign, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be jailed and put to death. In 496 A.D. Pope Gelasius set aside February 14 to honor St. Valentine.
Some states that it originated from St. Valentine, a Roman who was martyred for refusing to give up Christianity also attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured. Who was then killed and died on February 14, 269 A.D., this day had been devoted to love giving.
Some says that actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. St. Valentine left a farewell note for the jailer's daughter who visited him during his confinement, whom he fell in love with. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed "From Your Valentine" an expression that is still in use today.
While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial.
Others claim that the Christian church may celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping and sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus. The festival begin with members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. All the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn, city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February "Valentine's Day" should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year (the first was Christmas).Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap".

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Wednesday, January 20, 2010

May Birthstone Valentines Gift! (Emerald)

May Birthstone Valentines Gift!
This is such a wonderful idea of giving birthstone Valentine's day gifts for that someone special!
I will try to list as correctly as possible each bithstones for each month.
May Birthstone - Emerald
Emerald is both the May birthstone, also the anniversary gemstone for the 20th and 35th years of marriage and the Zodiac stone for the constellation of Cancer. The mineral Beryl green Emerald symbolizes wisdom, growth, patience, serenity, peace of mind and a symbolic of love and fidelity.
FOR HIM:
14K Yellow Gold Oval Created Emerald and Diamond Men's Men's Ring!
14K White Gold Genuine Oval Emerald and Diamond Men's Men's Ring!

FOR HER:
1.94 cttw Heart Shape Created Emerald and Genuine Diamonds Earring Studs - 14kt White Gold!
1.81 cttw Created Emerald and Genuine Diamond Heart Pendant - 14kt White Gold!

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Sunday, January 17, 2010

April Birthstone Valentines Gift! (Diamond)

April Birthstone Valentines Gift!
This is such a wonderful idea of giving birthstone Valentine's day gifts for that someone special!
I will try to list as correctly as possible each bithstones for each month.
April Birthstone - Diamond
Arguably the most beautiful gemstones on the planet, diamonds are also harder than any other substance on earth and found today in Australia, Botswana, Russia and South Africa.
Diamond is the April Birthstone, and an alternate Zodiac stone for the Constellation of Aries, is it also the anniversary gem for the 10th and 60th years of marriage.

Diamonds may be nearly any color in the rainbow plus browns, grays, and white. Shades of yellow are most common, followed by colorless. Blue, black, reddish, and greenish are more valuable.
I Love You: Woman wears her diamond on the third finger of her left hand because early Egyptians believed the vena amoris (vein of love) ran directly from the heart to the top of the third finger, left hand. A gift of a Diamond is symbolic of everlasting love. There is no more convincing a promise of an enduring relationship than the brilliant gemstone that has endured in people's hearts throughout the history.
But I know it's costly so here's some alternative April Birthstones: Opal, Cubic Zirconia.
FOR HIM:
14k White Gold Rectangular Men's Diamond Ring, w/ 0.55 Carat Brilliant Cut Diamonds, 1/2" (13mm) wide

FOR HER:
14k Choice of White or Yellow Gold Diamond Journey Half-Heart Pendant (1/2 cttw, H-I Color, I1-I2 Clarity)

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March Birthstone Valentines Gift! (Aquamarine)

March Birthstone Valentines Gift!
This is such a wonderful idea of giving birthstone Valentine's day gifts for that someone special!
I will try to list as correctly as possible each bithstones for each month.
March Birthstone - Aquamarine
The aquamarine is the blue, or perhaps more correctly, blue-green or aqua variety of the mineral beryl. Aquamarine is the birthstone for March, and it is commonly recognized as the Zodiac stone for the constellation of Scorpio. It is also the accepted anniversary gem for the 19th year of marriage.
Many believe that aquamarine helps dependence on drugs, is an aid in digestion, and can be used as remedy for swollen glands and to maintain the health of the jaws and teeth. It is believed to release anger and negativity replacing them with mental peace and clarity, providing emotional and mental balance. It has been used as an aid in meditation and to assist in self-expression.

A Gift of Love: Dream of aquamarine signifies the making of new friends.
Wear aquamarine brings love and affection.
Give aquamarine is to offer the gift of knowledge, foresight and individual inspiration.
Symbol of youth, fidelity, hope and health. it is said to aid seafarers so it is a wonderful gift for sailors, fishermen, and everyone who spends time at sea.
Aquamarine symbolizes safety and security, especially within long standing relationships.
FOR HIM:
14K White Gold Genuine Oval Aquamarine and Diamond Men's Men's Ring
14K Yellow Gold Genuine Oval Aquamarine and Diamond Men's Men's Ring

FOR HER:
2.00 cttw Genuine Aquamarine Heart Pendant - 14kt White Gold LIFETIME WARRANTY.
1.89 cttw Genuine Heart Shape Aquamarine and Diamond Earring Studs - 14kt White Gold.

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Saturday, January 16, 2010

February Birthstone Valentines Gift! (Amethyst)

February Birthstone Valentines Gift!
This is such a wonderful idea of giving birthstone Valentine's day gifts for that someone special!
I will try to list as correctly as possible each bithstones for each month.

February Birthstone - Amethyst
Amethyst is the birthstone for the month of February, the traditional anniversary gemstone for the sixth of marriage and the Zodiac stone for the constellation of Pisces. Once considered more valuable than diamonds, it occurs naturally as crystals within rocks. The stones are mined in Brazil, Uruguay, Sri Lanka, Madagascar, Zambia, Australia and in the mountains of Russia. American amethysts are mined in Maine, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, Montana and Colorado. Amethyst from Maine is usually dark with North Carolina amethyst having a bluish tint unique to that area.
The name "amethyst" comes from Greek and means "not drunken." Due to a belief that amethyst would ward off the effects of alcohol, but most likely the Greeks were referring to the almost wine-like color of some stones that they may have encountered. Although it must always be purple to be amethyst, it can and does have a wide range of purple shades.
FOR HIM:
10k Gold Satin Stripe Men's Comfort Fit Stone Ring, w/ 0.06 Carat Brilliant Cut Diamonds & 1.75 Carats Oval Cut (9x7mm) Amethyst Stone, 7/16" (11mm) wide

FOR HER:
Passion Forever: Sterling Silver 1.00 carats Round Shape Checkerboard Cut Amethyst Heart Pendant with 18 inch Silver Necklace &
Sterling Silver 1.75 carats total weight Heart Shape Amethyst Pendant Earrings and 18 inch Necklace Set

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January Birthstone Valentines Gift! (Garnet)

January Birthstone Valentines Gift!
This is such a wonderful idea of giving birthstone Valentine's day gifts for that someone special!
I will try to list as correctly as possible each bithstones for each month.
January Birthstone - Garnet
Garnet as the birthstone for the month of January, also the Zodiac stone for the constellation of Aquarius.
Archaeologists found primitive garnet jewelry which dates the use of this popular gemstone to the Bronze age. Today they are mined in countries like Brazil, India, Madagascar, India, Siberia, Africa, Sri Lanka, and the United States.
Garnets are extremely diverse and comes in a wide variety of colors to suit every taste. Although you may think of garnet as a red gem, the truth is that the garnet family of gemstones comes in a broad spectrum of colors, except blue.
Garnets of muted yellows, vibrant oranges, rosy pinks, lime greens, and violets are all part this gemstone's rainbow of hues. The diversity is due to unique combinations of elements within each particular gem, such as iron, calcium, and manganese.
The healing powers of the Garnet:
Facilitates night vision, ensures success, and provides guidance, protection, purification, and warmth. The ancient Egyptions beleives that garnets could purify the body of various types of toxins. Different colors of garnets will have slightly different properties.

FOR HIM:
10k Gold Satin Stripe Men's Comfort Fit Stone Ring, w/ Brilliant Cut Diamonds & Fancy Cut Garnet Stone, 1/2" (12mm) wide

FOR HER:
10k Yellow Gold, January Birthstone, Garnet and Diamond Heart Pendant &
Garnet Gemstone Heart Earrings with Diamonds 1.20 Carat (ctw) in 10K White Gold

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Monday, January 11, 2010

Understanding women this Valentine's day

Understanding women this Valentine's day
Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Can Understand Each Other (Hardcover) ~ Dr. Steve Stephens (Author)

One complaint that many men have is that they just don’t understand what women expect from them on Valentine’s Day. This can make planning for Valentine’s Day a very stressful experience for men. They are worried that the gift they buy will say the wrong thing or that their gift will be misinterpreted by their girlfriend or wife. As a result they often wind up either doing too much or too little on Valentine’s Day and have trouble finding that happy balance where their gift will be appreciated without their partners reading too much into the gift.
The Ultimate Guide for Men and Women to Understand Each Other (Paperback) ~ Alex A. Lluch (Author), Elizabeth Lluch (Author)

The Little Book of What Men Don't Understand About Women (Paperback) ~ Martin Ellis (Author), Amanda Thomas (Author)

The Man Who Understands a Woman's Heart (Paperback) ~ Sue Macheca (Author)

The key to finding this perfect gift is to understand women and how they think of Valentine’s Day.

The most important rule for men to remember is that when women say it is okay for you to not do anything for Valentine’s Day, 99.99% of the time they do not mean this. It is true there are some women who really do not expect anything from their boyfriends or husbands on Valentine’s Day but the vast majority will be extremely disappointed if you allow Valentine’s Day to pass without even a card or a small gift. So unless you are absolutely sure your partner is one of those women who really does not care about Valentine’s Day it is a safe bet to at least get a card and a flower for the special woman in your life. She is likely to be disappointed if you don’t.

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Now you might be wondering what type of card you should get for the special woman in your life on Valentine’s Day. There are humorous cards available for purchase on Valentine’s Day but again unless you are absolutely sure this is the type of card your partner will like it is a better idea to go with a romantic card. You can find these types of cards expressing a number of different sentiments and are likely to find a card which expresses your feelings about the relationship perfectly. Men may not realize this but women typically put a great deal of time and effort into selecting your card and they may be disappointed if you do not do the same when selecting a card for them.

Hallmark VOV5705 ABC Valentine's Day Music and Recording Card

Men should also be aware that women do not want to be reminded of their diets on Valentine’s Day. Your girlfriend or wife may talk about wanting to lose weight and may be trying to exercise and eat right but this does not mean she wants you to buy her sugar free candy and give her workout equipment for Valentine’s Day. You may think you are doing something great for your girlfriend or wife but trust us on this one, she will think you are calling her fat. If you really want to support your partner in her diet efforts, you can give her a small box of chocolates and a piece of jewelry instead. Conversely, a box of diet cookies and a workout video are not likely to be well received.

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Finally, one of the most important things for men to remember is it really is the thought that counts. Women want to feel special on Valentine’s Day. Extravagant gifts may seem like a good idea and may be well received but most women really just want to know that you love them on Valentine’s Day. So whether you give them expensive jewelry or make the effort to cook them dinner they will know how you feel about them.

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